Key traits — Secure Connector
- Expresses needs directly without blame or shame
- Stays curious during conflict instead of defensive
- Repairs quickly after misunderstandings
- Uses 'I feel' language without minimising others
- Balances honesty with empathy effortlessly
Growth edge
Even Secure Connectors can over-accommodate under high stress. Watch for moments when you suppress your own needs to keep the peace.
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