The personal trainer for your emotional intelligence

Your words land differently than you think.

Paste a message, see how it really lands, reply as you meant it. ALYGN remembers every person you write to and tells you your part too.

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Example

“You always do this and you never listen to what I actually need.”

Estimated gap
64%
how differently it may
land vs. what you meant
absolute languageblame
One of three rewrites

“When this happens I stop feeling heard. Can we find a way for me to flag it in the moment?”

Thirty seconds between reacting and connecting.

01

Paste the message

A text you are about to send, or one that just landed in your chest. No setup, no sign-up.

02

See the gap

ALYGN estimates the perception gap, flags the patterns (absolutes, blame, minimizing) and names how each side may feel.

03

Send the better version

Three rewrites in your own voice: firmer, warmer or clearer. Each one tied to the EQ skill it trains.

Works for

One door. Every hard conversation.

Whoever you are, it starts the same way: one message. Here is what you get from it, depending on where you stand.

Your communication style

After a few messages, a pattern appears.

A message you actually sent

“You always do this and you never listen to what I actually need.”

Your archetype under pressure
The Absolutist

ALYGN reads your real messages (not a quiz) and estimates which of seven communication archetypes you reach for under pressure, then follows how it shifts as you train.

The seven archetypes
Secure ConnectorThe SoftenerThe AbsolutistThe DeflectorThe CriticThe Over-ProcessorThe Fixer
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What ALYGN looks at, in plain words.

No jargon and no lecture. ALYGN brings together what is known about how people communicate and tells you what it sees in your words. Every number is an estimate, not a verdict.

Patterns

Absolutes, blame, mind-reading: the habits that make a message land harder than you meant.

Both sides

How you may feel writing it, and how they may feel reading it.

Repair

Turns blame into a need the other person can actually hear.

Find out how your words really land.

Free. No account. Your first read takes 30 seconds.

Paste a message