Your words land differently than you think.
Paste any message: one you want to send, or one you just received. ALYGN reveals the gap between what you meant and how it actually lands, then rewrites it in your own voice.
“You always do this and you never listen to what I actually need.”
it lands vs. intent
“When this happens I stop feeling heard. Can we find a way for me to flag it in the moment?”
Thirty seconds between reacting and connecting.
Paste the message
A text you're about to send, or one that just landed in your chest. No setup, no sign-up.
See the gap
ALYGN scores the perception gap, flags the patterns (absolutes, blame, minimizing), and names how both sides actually feel.
Send the better version
Three rewrites in your own voice: firmer, warmer, or clearer. Each tagged with the EQ skill it builds.
Every hard message is a relationship in a sentence.
The distance between what you meant and what they heard, closed in one message.
For couples
Decode the text that's been sitting unsent. Turn a spiral into a repair.
For managers & teams
Send feedback that lands as support, not threat. Build an EQ-fluent culture.
For therapists & coaches
A between-session tool your clients actually use. Real messages, real growth.
For anyone who overthinks a text
Stop rereading it twelve times. Know how it lands before you hit send.
After a few decodes, a pattern appears.
“You always do this and you never listen to what I actually need.”
ALYGN reads your real messages (not a quiz) and names which of six research backed archetypes you reach for under pressure, then tracks how it shifts as you grow.
Discover yours on your first decode.
Grounded in decades of relationship research, spoken in plain human.
ALYGN doesn't lecture you with jargon. The science is the ground; ALYGN is the voice.
40 years of couples research on what predicts breakdown vs. repair.
Names the cognitive distortions (all-or-nothing, mind-reading) hiding in your words.
Nonviolent Communication turns blame into a clear, hearable need.
Find out how your words really land.
Free. No account. Your first decode takes 30 seconds.
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